Sunday, June 21, 2009

We love Daddy

Since Father's Day gets so much less hooha than Mother's Day, I'm declaring this Father's WEEK here at Chez Wei, which is why my post to honor Jack is acceptably late. It's been a busy year (aren't they all?!) and all of us here feel how much he loves us every day. Thank you Jack...

...for a chest to sleep on...


...for countless projects completed with loving patience....


...for being indestructible...


...for pretty toes...


...for figuring out how to make whatever we want come true...


...for helping with tough decisions...


...for story after story after story, even when it's I Spy Christmas for 4 weeks straight...


...for making us feel safe on new adventures...


...and keeping us safe while we challenge ourselves...


...for fun days...


...and unforgettable moments...


...and for always being there when we need you! You're our rock (and our peanut butter).


We love you!!!

Saturday, June 13, 2009

Bugs

It's been a buggy few weeks... first a stomach bug attacked Ben and I, then Alex. Then some sort of energy draining fever inducing bug attacked Jack and Dani and Alex and Ben. Then we found a SWARM of ants in the garage. Time to call the bug guy! Then Jack's computer went buggy and won't turn on - he was hoping to eek it out for another year before buying a new one. THEN I got a flat tire as we were headed to swim lessons (not the work of a bug, just a large chunk of metal). But as all things do, everything ended just fine. Ben finally got hydrated enough to stop throwing up, Alex and Dani made it to swim class thanks to Aunt Jean, and they are now even feeling good enough to play together again (instead of just laying around watching TV - they've actually OD'ed on it, I think! No requests today to watch). As they play, I can tell the week has made an impact. They have new games...

I'm eavesdropping and just heard Alex tell Dani, "Uh oh, I terribled my friends." Dani asked, "What does that mean?" to which Alex replied, "I leaned over and threw up all over them."

and when we went to Steak and Shake with Aunt Jean after swim class, the girls got paper convertible cars with stickers to add. Alex told Aunt Jean, "I'm going to make a flat tire!"

LOL!

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Strawberries!

Last weekend we headed to Spencer Farms to give the kids their first strawberry picking experience and we had a lot of fun! Ama came to add another set of hands which is always helpful when Ben decides he wants to help too. Which he did! The girls were excellent pickers and loved taking berries from us to add to the pile. We left with 15 pounds and the girls at 3-4 of those on the way home in the car! I can't wait to make strawberry rhubarb cobbler (with a cornmeal crust... Mmmmmm...). The kids were almost as interested in the tree stumps as the fields!






Friday, June 05, 2009

Ben's Resume Resumes

Apparently I am so unable to throw things away that not only do I have 1-3 junk drawers in every room of the house, but my laptop's hard drive has been telling me it's FULL for weeks. Which has kept me from downloading all the pictures from SanFran and our life thereafter. But Jack somehow accomplished it yesterday, so now I have no excuses for not blogging. I thought I was going to be forced to keep this blog updated with text alone and/or less-than-ideal pictures that can be posted via my iPhone blogging app (yes, I AM spoiled rotten and realize it every day) but, as always, Jack came to the rescue.

Most importantly, I need to record Ben's latest milestones (and by latest, I mean what he's done the last 2.5 months since March when I posted about his first steps. Bad Mom, what can I say). At 13 months, Ben is now:

- sleeping through the night. Yay! He started this about 2 days after I weaned him at 11 months. He's been a better sleeper than his sisters were even until they turned 2 years old, and now he's leaps and bounds ahead of where they were at this age. He goes down for naps with little to no protest twice a day for at least 45 minutes (this nap length and consistency was unheard of with the girls) and he's sleeping from 8pm to 6:30am-ish each night. If I wasn't a procrastinative, easily distracted night owl, I could easily get 8 hours a nite.

- walking up the stairs while holding the railing. He's also determined to go down the same way but I have been able to intervene so far after a few steps.

- running. Especially after his sisters.

- verbally saying "more" "done" "mama" "dada" and "nana" (banana) VERY consistently and can use signs to say book, drink, more, eat, all done, cat, please, open, close, cook, cold, hot, fish, and drive/car. He's also clearly shaking his head No and recently started doing Yes (altho he shakes his whole upper body to accomplish this! It's adorable).

- determined to run into the street and/or fall into the front yard pond. Those are the first places he goes if he escapes out the garage door. Which he does often. Thank goodness we are on a circle and have neighbors who are too busy to notice my 1 year old throwing rocks into the pond unsupervised.

- a very very good hugger, and he has a super hilarious smile that he pulls out when he knows he's being cute. He also has an incredible laugh that I STILL have not caught on video. Not that I could download it to share it here even if I did. Dangit!

- climbing anything in his way. I find him standing on the girls' kid-size table almost daily, even when I've taken the chairs away. He brought over a box from the playroom one day to use as a step stool and got up there.

- going to be the cause of our first visit to the ER since my hand injury back in 1999. Last week his sisters demonstrated to him how they can jump off the couch and off their beds, landing with a satisfied THUD on their feet. I've seen him trying to do it every day since.

- very social with strangers, even when acting shy. He likes to hand people things, especially rocks or small toys. It was so cute to see him shyly walk up to our neighbor's 5 year old son and his friend with a rock and offer this "gift" to them. He SO wants to be a big kid!

In general, Ben is a joy to be around, even when his temper flares up and he's flailing his 24 lb body around while I'm trying to hold him and cook at the same time (again, the ER visit is imminent). When he hugs you close and then pats or rubs your back in circles, it makes all the crazy work keeping him alive worth it.

With kids, you can never have too many buckets:


A few pics from last week's visit to Gramma and Opa's house in Chicago:

With "Uncle Jonas" and "Great-Auntie Edita":



Hooray for block parties and the bouncy houses they bring! ;)

Monday, May 11, 2009

Things I've learned on this trip

We had such a great time traveling with the girls! I was amazed at their ability to keep up to our activity level and am so proud at how generally well-behaved they are. They also seemed to grow into bigger, funnier, smarter little girls right in front of my eyes! Some of this revelation may just stem from the focus we were able to give them without juggling "Baby BooBoo" (as the girls have been calling him). They've probably been this advanced for weeks and my eyes and ears are just now catching on. ;) But with so many new things to do and see, they probably did grow up a bit. Even with our own city just a few miles away, and Gramma and Opa in Chicago, this was their first big city experience. Alex pointed out how many cabs she was seeing at the airport when we first landed. Dani noticed how tall the buildings were and how some were tall and some short, with so many people on the streets. Alex also had a blast with all our walking excursions (and we did a LOT of walking!) because she loves to tell us whether we should step on the cracks or not. They both enjoyed seeing their cousins every day and the boys were excellent friends to them in return. Funny how we have to travel hundreds of miles to spend so much concentrated time with family who are 10 minutes away at home! This trip was a wonderful break from our everyday busy lives, and we all enjoyed the beauty of San Fran hills, sun, and sites. I loved this time to soak up family life, and it's comforting to know how easily the girls travel. Even though Jack and Jean planned almost every aspect if this trip (thanks!) I still learned a lot:
- Take&toss sippy cups do not work on airplanes. The pressure makes them leak which is less than helpful
- Only 2-3 new kitschy toys per kid is necessary. They get excited enough to play with them for awhile.
- My girls are not quite ready to entertain themselves with stickers yet
- Dani prefers to sleep on her tummy and has more trouble sleeping on the go than her sister, even tho she falls asleep in the car instantly. Hills make for difficult car naps - too many head flops!
- Alex likes sleeping on her back (for once, she's like Dad in this way! Usually she's more like Mom) and is very good at looking out the window to entertain herself.
- Dani likes goat cheese!
- Alex likes to eat treats slowly to make them last.
- Both girls love wearing fancy dresses but hate having their picture taken. The ultimate wedding photographer teases.
- Alex will pretend to be a monkey or mountain climber wherever she goes. Dani will pretend to be a big sister who's helping teach her sister to climb. And then they'll switch (except Dani will actually need the help! How Alex finds those perfect finger holds, I'll never know. She and Uncle Mike will be scaling cliffs in Slovakia before we know it!)
- Almost anything becomes easier when ice cream is involved.
- Sisters make good bridges. ;)



It was wonderful to see our extended family and celebrate love.






Thursday, May 07, 2009

Monterey Bay Aquarium

For our first real activity of the trip we visited the aquarium with Aunt Jean, Uncle Aaron, and cousins Clay and Owen. The girls were incredible troupers, walking all day and staying interested in everything we saw. Even after waking at 3:45am pst (which is their usual waking time of 6:45 at home), they kept on looking, listening, being cheerful and asking questions until 4:30pm when we finally gave them a car nap driving back to SF. I'm so proud of them! And all at the young age of 34 months (Insert sheepish laugh of a parent who is too cheap to pay 17.50 x 2 for a child admission...) Before drifting off, Dani told me one of her favorite things we saw were "the birds with long skinny legs" (sandpipers I believe) and Alex said "I liked the penguins." I loved the sea jellies exhibit, the school of anchovies in the Outer Bay tank (one million gallons of water!) and the sea horses - so cute and amazing how they glide like the ghosts in "beetlejuice".

I'll upload better pics later from my real cam but here's a taste of today. :)


Anchovies swim together like the one big fish in Leo Lionni's classic book "Swimmy"!




Beautiful jellies





Alex & Dani make otters swim, bob, and spin. We got to see an otter feeding near the end of the day.




Wednesday, May 06, 2009

The first Wei family vacation

Thanks to Jack's cousin Yvonne (Congrats Yvonne & Matt! We can't wait to see you soon!!) we're headed back west... to San Francisco! As I write this, we're enjoying our first plane ride with the girls and they are doing FAN-tastic! We all kissed BenBen goodbye in Chicago this morning and headed to Ohare. The girls were so excited about going to the airport but were still able to take a little nap in the car which put them in extra good spirits as they boarded the train from long term parking. Their first train ride! We'll have added three to four new forms of transportation to their resumes by the end of this trip.

Photos: On the train - Daddy and Dani, Alex and mommy.


Enjoying activities for four hours plus a 30 min delay - coloring and Little Einsteins time:



Sunday, May 03, 2009

Ben's First Birthday and Easter Eggstravaganza!

This has been a long time coming. I haven't found much computer time between a very busy month for twins club and all of us being sick this past week (Dani and I had Strep Throat, Alex and Ben had ear infections, and Jack is covered in Poison Oak. Yikes! Don't come to our house without a hazmat suit!). But we most certainly must record how much fun it was celebrating Ben's first year of life AND the joy of our yearly Easter egg hunt! Here are more pictures than I've posted the past few months combined.

Clay with his stash. He finished first of course and went on to help the girls find more. What a good cousin.


Dani was excited to play "I Spy" out in the real world! It's her favorite.


Alex had a hard time waking up from nap. Gramma helped her get looking.



Aunt Holly and Uncle Mike joined the fun.



Ben and I explored the yard.



Alex had a super heavy basket. 



Ama loves her BenBen.



Clay helps Dani find treasure with Aunt Holly's help.



All the cousins had fun together! Right after the group pic, Ben went on his own egg hunt... in Alex's basket!



Aunt Jean snuggled with our little Chinese Birthday boy.



Uncle Aaron, Ben, and Jack enjoyed the Easter/birthday dinner.


And so did Jean, Clay, and Owen at their table.


When it was time for cake - Ben got to strip down!










Ben didn't dig in nearly as enthusiastically as his sisters did on their first taste of cake. I think he's had far more sweets already than they ever did!










Then: Presents! Ben's favorite thing to do is rip paper! Finally a time when it's sanctioned.




Happy Birthday Little Man!